Have you ever come upon the end of your week and wished you had just one more day. One more day would have been enough, we tell ourselves, to finish out our to do list for the week. Sounds similar to coming to the twenty-fifth of the month and wishing for just another hundred dollars for the close of the month.
However, where raises might come, we all get the same allotment of time and it won’t ever change.
Just like Dave Ramsey has you use cash envelopes for your spending budgets, we can reserve envelopes of time for our various responsibilities across the week to help things “come out even.”
As Laura Vanderkam writes in her book 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think:
While 168 hours is a lot of time, time is still, in the broader sense, a nonrenewable resource. These hours still have to be carefully budgeted in order to turn the life you have into the life you want.
And when we have this big picture view of our week we also have a clearer vision of how we’re spending our time and if that matches up with our priorities.
However, a time budget is not a schedule.
Rather than scheduling 20 minutes for folding laundry, 10 minutes for sweeping, and so forth for every task we have on our list, we can look at our days and weeks as a whole and reserve chunks of time for types of tasks. Then when that chunk of time begins, we can assess the current state of things and decide what comes first and what’s next.
A week is never going to play out the way we budget our time, but it’s still a valuable exercise because as we mark out the time commitments we have, we start to see where we have margin, where we need to create margin, and perhaps why things like grocery shopping or phone calls are so stressful – there’s no place for them in the flow of our week!
Last year I had a time budget problem. Groceries have to be procured, but I didn’t have a place for it on the plan. I thought I had enough margin built in for it to just happen whenever it needed to happen. I did have margin built in. But grocery shopping is rather essential and regular, and so needed a regular and reserved spot in the plan. Just as with a money budget, when I wasn’t reserving any time for grocery shopping, it always felt like I was skimping and scraping to make it happen rather than doing the right thing at the right time.
Having a time budget helps us be confident in what we are doing, because we know it’s the right next thing.
Here is my current weekly time budget, which I tweak and adjust as needed each interval:
Sunday is not on the time budget at all because it is a day of rest – for church, rest, and fellowship with friends.
- pink is personal or down time
- purple is online & writing time (productive online time, that is)
- orange is school time
- green is housework, errands, & meals
- blue is margin, for hanging out or for doing what needs to be done
Thinking about our time in terms of a week rather than a day helps our perspective, also.
If we think less about planning out the days to cover all our bases and more about how we spend time over the course of a week, we get a better sense of whether or not our priorities are in balance. Do the hectic, errand-running days have balancing at-home days? Is there time for you and your husband to spend time together? Do you have times set aside to pray and read your Bible?
Look at the picture of your week rather than a day. A day can be easily derailed, but over the course of a week things can even out.
Declutter your head.
- Reduce stress by getting your thoughts onto paper
- Reduce frustration by assigning homes to stuff, tangible & intangible
- Reduce anxiety by knowing what you have on your plate