We’re doing something new this season. We’re going to be starting off each season with a FAQ episode about the season’s topic. This season is going to be about grocery shopping so I’m here with Virginia Lee Rogers who is helping me with customer support for Simplified Organization and we are going to talk about how to fit grocery shopping into our busy schedules.
Mystie: So, hello, Virginia Lee.
Virginia Lee: Hi, Mystie, thanks for having me.
Mystie: Do you want to tell us a little bit about yourself?
Virginia Lee: I’d love to. I live in Colorado and I am a homeschooling mom of five kiddos ages 12 and under and we are Charlotte Mason homeschoolers. To find me online I don’t keep a blog but I am on Instagram quite a bit, I run an Instagram book shop called “The Jolly Reader” sort of a play on words for “The Jolly Rogers” since Rogers is our last name and I’m also one of the nine ladies who curate Charlotte Mason In Real Life and that’s on Instagram at CMIRL, so that’s sort of a community where show what it looks like to take Charlotte Mason’s philosophies and live those out practically day by day.
Mystie: Awesome. So, both of us are homeschooling and we have five kids and it turns out that these people need to eat. That means we need to go to the grocery store.
Virginia Lee: Yes, yes, yes.
Mystie: So I think one of the things that really makes a difference in the grocery store routine and getting it in there is how close they are because how much commuting time there is really makes a big difference in where it can fit in.
Virginia Lee: Yes, most definitely. And especially, we live in Colorado so the weather six months out of the year is not always optimal. So that is a big thing to think of if you’re going to have to drive any sort of distance.
Mystie: So how is the town where you are? Are the discount grocers close or do you … ?
Virginia Lee: We have a bulk store in our town and we have a couple of chain grocery stores as well and the chain grocery stores that we have are definitely not discount stores they’re a little more expensive but they’re not bad if you want to find something specific and they always tend to have better produce, of course. But I am not one of those people who likes to shop at four or five different places…
Virginia Lee: … so I’d rather plan my menus around what I can get from the most convenient place to shop and I know some moms don’t mind at all, they enjoy it and they’ll go to a few different spots to get their groceries, but I’m just not really in that season of life right now.
Mystie: Yeah. I used to but I think that was maybe it was baby number three where I stopped.
Virginia Lee: Yes, yes. We’ve done grocery shopping a couple of different ways and I think you’re right it really does depend do you have a baby, do you have older kids going with you, you know, that kind of thing. For awhile we used to, at the bulk store that we have, you can put in online orders so you can just get online, choose every single thing you want, and place the order, and you do have to be prepared because you can’t do it the day you want to pick it up, I mean, you have to do it at least the day before, they need a day to get it and process it but what we used to do is I would stick that order in on Saturday because dad was home and so that allowed me a chunk of time to get online and have complete thoughts without interruptions, get that put in, and then we’d go to church on Sunday and then when church was out the bulk store was sort of near our church so we’d just go as a whole family over there, then we’d check in at the little kiosk and they’d bring our order out in carts, and they would have to go gather frozen or refrigeratable stuff but since we were all together we would often time get a slice of pizza, then we’d have lots of helpers to load and unload but we didn’t have to do any of the shopping and so it really cut down on the amount of time, my sanity…
Mystie: Right, because all the thinking is done at that point.
Virginia Lee: Yes, I didn’t have to make any decisions. The only decision I had to make was are we allowed to have pizza today or not? My husband and I were wanting to have some more one on one time with the kids than we were getting and so he actually has taken over the grocery shopping because he does it on Saturdays about twice a month and then he takes a specific kid with him and then the two of them do that shopping. So I can still put in the online orders and we still do that periodically but for awhile, we have kids that have hit adolescence now and so it’s nice for them, especially since my oldest is a boy, it’s nice for him to get some one on one time with his dad.
Mystie: I know there were several times when I had a little baby and it was just hard to get out with a bunch of toddlers plus baby and then go to a place where you have to make decisions with every step. I just gave the list to my husband and he would swing by because both of our normal grocery stores were on his way home from work. Of course, now he works from home so that definitely doesn’t work.
Virginia Lee: There is something to be said for dad coming home from work. He can pick up milk when you realize you don’t have any. That would be hard I didn’t think about that with dad being home.
Mystie: But the other convenience is I can just pop out to the grocery store and I’m not leaving anyone without an adult in the house.
Virginia Lee: That is true, although I’d have to admit that I’m not a big fan of going to the grocery store so I sort of like it that my husband has taken that over for a period of time. I would rather do the meal planning portion of it. Although it was sort of a learning curve at first because if you’re the person doing most of the cooking there’s some things you just know intuitively… I remember when he first took over some of it, he came home with the tiniest little bottle of vanilla that I have ever seen in my life and I thought, ‘I’m going to cook one time with that and it’s going to be all gone’ but I don’t think he realized how much vanilla is even used in a recipe or …
Mystie: I think it’s good, too, to realize, oh, I’ve been grocery shopping for how many years and just how much experience you accumulate.
Virginia Lee: Yes, and even just where things are located in your store. I don’t know about you but I don’t like to shop at different stores that I’m not familiar with because I know where nothing is.
Mystie: I will go to Winco to get that because I know exactly where it is.
Virginia Lee: And it really does take more time if you have to track it down and locate it, so I think even just for that, if you are having your husband or maybe your husband’s been doing the shopping and now you’re taking it over, you know, it does just have a learning curve and I remember just we’d print out a master pantry list and it’s just all of our groceries on there and I remember when he started doing the shopping I just reorganized that so that things would be relocated — in my mind I had it organized a certain way, more like, dry goods or refrigeratables that kind of thing but I actually reorganized it for him so it was more based on store location, but yeah, that’s really how we fit our grocery shopping in right now, is my husband does it every other Saturday or we put in the bulk over and do it on Sundays. If I have to go, if something comes up and I have to go in the week and it’s not one of our normal grocery shopping times then I try to go on Friday when the school week is over.
Mystie: Yeah, sometimes now because I have a 14 year old and 12 year old, we will go after I’m done with school with the younger kids and we’ll leave and leave the older ones at home so they can have some quiet house time, so that’s kind of where it’s been fitting in for us, lately. But it also helps that Winco, our normal grocery store, is a mile and a half away from our house and then Costco 3-5 miles. It doesn’t have to be a huge trip, it doesn’t take that much time to get there.