Classical Homeschooling in Our Home

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What your homeschool looks like, even as you try working toward classical education principles, depends on where you’ve been, and how and when you entered this path.

There are no gate-keepers checking your credentials and only letting you in if you use the approved materials. And that’s a good thing. This week, we’re going to be sharing how these principles play out in our homes. We’re all different, and I hope that will encourage you.

My husband and I were both homeschooled, and now it’s our turn to homeschool our crew. Neither my husband or I have ever gone to public school (at least, not until community college and university). That puts us at a huge advantage for weaving education into life, because our parents did the hard work of de-schooling their approach. I don’t remember what class it was for or why I picked the topic, but in college I ended up writing a research paper on classical education in a homeschool setting. I interviewed a teacher at Logos School who homeschooled his own children, and that conversation made me realize I had no idea what I was stepping into. I wrote the paper, but it only left me feeling completely ignorant about the topic. That was not acceptable, so from then on, before my husband and I were even married, I was a classical education research hobbyist. I found Cindy Rollins when my oldest was a toddler and read Norms and Nobility, Leisure, the Basis of Culture, and Poetic Knowledge with her online book clubs before we ever started “real school” (in my mind, that’s third grade).

Finding myself with actual small children of my own, I repented of my early-twenties’ arrogance that my mom’s “better late than earlyMoore-inspired approach was lacking and lazy. A year or two into Morning Time and Math-U-See and read-alouds, we repented of our early-twenties’ attempt to launch an ACCS classical school. I was not going to give up this amazing life of learning alongside my children, exhausting and demanding as it was.

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We now have five kids, a boy aged 11, a boy aged 9, a girl aged 6 1/2, a boy aged 4 1/2, and a girl who is almost 2. I’m in my early thirties and we’ve been homeschooling for seven years (if you count year 1 as the first year of regular phonics lessons). After investing my idealistic twenties into educational philosophy and reading dozens of amazing education books, now I find it’s time to stop (only) thinking and writing about it and actually flesh it out in real life.

So, what does it look like to actually put these principles we’ve been talking about into practice? What do these principles look like with real people in a real home?

It looks different in every family, but here’s what it looks like in ours.

 

Virtue as the Goal

One of my favorite quotes on education is by David Hicks in Norms and Nobility when he writes:

The purpose of education is not the assimilation of facts or the retention of information, but the habituation of the mind and body to will and to act in accordance with what one knows.

So we need to grow in our knowing, but we need to conform our doing as well. We need to do what we know is right. Then we need to learn more and more what right, what Truth, is. Then put it into practice. Again and again. Over and over.

The one thing I try to remind myself of every morning, one thing I pray continually for grace to live out, is to see the bumpy patches of our day as opportunities for growth in virtue rather than as evidence of condemnation.

When a child cries over math, the problem isn’t the child or the math and the point isn’t that we’re failing. The point is, “Will you glorify God in how you treat this child right now? in how you treat God’s creation expressed in math right now? in how you rely on God’s grace to pull you through rather than your own willpower?”

Ideas as Soul Formation

When we choose to read an interesting biography over a textbook, memorize an entire Psalm rather than an out-of-context verse, or bring our nature notebooks when we go camping rather than do a science experiment from a book, we are favoring ideas over facts.

We still memorize facts. We learn the presidents, the books of the Bible, the genealogy of Christ. We even memorize (or, at least, repeat many times) a handful of history sentences pulled from our timeline figures.

This year we’re even learning the periodic table in order with a song! But it’s not a disjointed, out-of-context memorization of bare facts. The song will come in the context of reading about elements, about the history of the periodic table, about atoms and electrons – it will come in context, adding a fun and upbeat tone to our time together and cementing in what we’re reading.

Beauty as Home

One powerful way to teach through atmosphere and the beauty of our homes is to knock down the barriers between “real life” and “learning.” We can do this in many ways, but one way we do that in our house is by having no reserved spaces for school.

Of course there are reserved places for the stuff: A home for everything and everything in its home and all that. But the reading can happen in the living room, at the bar of the kitchen, sprawled on the playroom floor, in bed, outside in a hammock – anywhere. Conversations that happen during dinner prep or car rides are as educational as the orchestrated narration. Is that drawing lesson copied from the art book schoolwork or free time? Hard to say. Does it matter?

Take advantage of doing education at home to let it bleed into life; let the edges blur and find beauty in a full life lived together.

Imitation as Learning Style

Rather than thinking of myself as a teacher and what I do as teaching, I prefer to think of it as tutoring and discipleship: this keeps the focus small, on the individuals I’m teaching and our relationship. It’s alarming but true: the kids are learning more from the way I handle life not going my way than they do from their books and assignments. So how I manage throughout the day and how I treat them and speak to them matters far more than anything else. When I notice the habit of complaining or laziness creeping in, I can always see that it actually started with me: my children are mirrors, magnifying glasses, who follow my lead and express the same responses in less socially adept ways.

So I have to own the attitude problems and fix my own always and first.

What Classical Homeschooling Looks Like Reading

Poetic Knowledge as Curriculum

What is learning? Does it have to be measured on a multiple-choice choice to count?

No.

Learning is

  • helping with chores
  • swimming with friends
  • drawing for fun
  • writing a comic book
  • playing ball with a baby sister
  • helping mom with dinner
  • reading a stack of library books
  • chatting with a friend about Minecraft
  • playing Legos with friends and siblings from 4 years old to 12 years old
  • helping set up chairs and tables alongside the men at church
  • playing a board game with Dad

And all that not because a fraction was used in the process, but because living a full life in relationship with others is a huge part of the training required to grow into maturity, into virtue.

Yes, learning is acing the math test, diagramming a sentence, or conjugating the Latin verb. But those tasks on the checklist are only a partial picture, and as the orchestrators of the entire upbringing of our children, we need to remember the complete picture that cannot be measured analytically.

Homeschooling classically is not being perfect or feeling successful, but continuing in faithfulness and love – both we and our children with us.

And because I know you still want to ask:

Materials We Use

Math-U-See, Xtramath.org, Latin for Children, Beautiful Handwriting for Children, TATRAS phonics, Covenantal Catechism, Geography Songs with mapwork and Geopuzzles, Pianophonics, nature journaling and commonplacing, homemade Circle Time Binders, and lots and lots of books.

14 Responses

  1. Danielle
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    I want to print this out and plaster it on my walls. Perfect thoughts and focus for where I’m at in my mothering, my “tutoring and discipleship,” and my own learning. This part especially hit me in the heart :”When I notice the habit of complaining or laziness creeping in, I can always see that it actually started with me.”

  2. Lisa A
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    Great, great post, Mystie! This is exactly what I strive for in our home. :)

  3. KarenG
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    One of the things I like best about the Schole Sisters’ site is the reminder that classical education is built around a few solid principles. If we get those right, the actual implementation doesn’t have to follow a prescribed path. Kudos to you all for presenting classical education as something both achievable and desirable.

    • Mystie Winckler
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      Thank you so much, Karen. That is what we were hoping for! Your kind words mean a lot to us. :)

  4. Sherry Campbell
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    I love this post. It hit me right where I’m at with thinking and planning for the coming school year. The quote from Norms and Nobility caused me to stop and think. Viewing a part of education as the habituation of the mind and body to will and act in accordance with what one knows is such an important truth. Thank you for sharing that, and thank you for your thoughts on virtue, ideas, beauty, imitation, and poetic knowledge. I will definitely be rereading this one.

  5. Jeni G
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    This is a beautiful post! I’m sure I will revisit it many times to serve as a reminder to me what I am doing here and why. It’s so easy to get pulled back into the separation of “life” and “school” when it is so prevalent around me! I work very hard to try to keep away from making that distinction, but it always creeps back in. Thank you for this post, Mystie, and the reminders that what I am doing here in my home is good and right!

  6. Julia
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    Thank you, Mystie, for showing us how Classical Education is played out in your home. I have a question that has been gnawing away at me for the past two weeks. I understand that Classical is the implementation of a few principles but I have always been told that the teaching of latin or an inflected language is what makes the education classical. If you don’t do that then it can only be called a liberal arts education.

    I am bringing this up because I carry out the principles that you have explained but my kids do not learn latin (we try every year but my kids have learning challenges and latin is the first thing that goes when the year gets tough.) So do I put the label of Classical Education on our learning? I don’t think I can.

    I know that it doesn’t really matter what label I slap on us as long as my kids are getting a good education (and I am trying) but I was called out on this a few months ago on a forum so I am leery to say that my children are receiving a classical education.

    • Mystie Winckler
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      I think there’s a place to make distinctions between “classical” vs. “liberal arts” vs. just plain “education” (utilitarian schooling isn’t education). If you wanted to distinguish between the different veins or streams from the main river of historically-rooted, principled education, then “classical” would include Latin/Greek & Homer whereas other types might not.

      However, while hammering out what Scholé Sisters would be, we decided that we’d stake our tent in the wide headwaters of these principles, and consider things like Latin part of “method” that is variable. Especially in these times where we are recovering the notion of what education really means in the first place, we need to hammer home principles and not particular subjects.

      • Julia
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        Thank you, Mystie, for your words. Now I can relax and feel free to comment and participate on this blog.

  7. Karen @ Simply
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    Thanks for sharing with us what implementation of a classical education looks like in your home Mystie. :)

  8. Meghan Armstrong
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    This is a post I will return to when I need to get re-envisioned. Thanks Mystie!

  9. shwell
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    I am commenting here as it is the newest post, but I am not really commenting about the post.
    I have found this blog through Sarah MacKenzie’s blog.
    I guess I am more classical than I thought and this knowledge has come at a great time as every year I move further away from the set curriculum I am currently using (I needed it for confidence when I started).
    I would love to read aloud more, I read and read when my kids where younger, but NOW it seems that everytime I start to read a book out loud I start falling asleep.
    Does anyone have any good suggestions, or experience with this. I hate it. And I have realized that over the last two years my oldest has been doing most of the reading to my youngest.
    So far I am loving what I read here. I don’t blog or follow many blogs, but these posts are really touching me. Thanks

  10. Lisa G
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    I absolutely love what you’ve written. It’s so easy to get caught up in the nuts and bolts facts and methods and such. But what really jumped out at me is how you (me too) need to pray for grace to see bumps in the day as opportunities for virtue to grow vs. condemnation of failure. Our kids are watching us. It’s easy, for me anyway, to get frustrated when “my agenda” isn’t being met but I love this reminder to pray for that grace.

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